Commitments

Commitments are very important ... Couple of times we AVOID to take up commitments .. What could be the reasons for not picking up the commitments ... I think reasons should more and less following :-

1. Fear of loosing the freedom : We think if we stick to some commitments then we have to stick up with some rule books , need to become more disciplined and become questionable . This will take away freedom

2. Fear of failure : People think that picking more commitments raised the risk of more failure .

3. Unaware of strengths and weakness : Unaware of our strength and weakness makes us resistant to pick up new commitments.

But I think , to get rid of all above points , one should pick up commitments :-) . Seriously :-) . Let me put my point..

1. Freedom : I believe more the commitments we pick up , more important role we have in society which makes us more powerful and options in hand. Mostly , All powerful people are have more freedom quotient ...

2. Failure : Most of times , commitment is not so difficult as we initially thought of .. We are fear of starting ( failing) ...In case , we pick up a commitment and even we got failed ... We will get chance to know our shortcomings and this will give more strength and experience . All this add ons will certainly help in making decisions for new commitments to successfully handle them.

3. Strengths and Weakness : Commitments give us hand on experience to know our strengths and weakness.

So , Very fear that prevent us to pick up commitments , can only be get rid of by picking more commitments !!