Pillars of strong relationship

There are so variety of relationships like couple relationship , parents - children relationship , office relationship , lovers relationships , friends relationship etc ..

All relationships are different in some way .. But there should be commonality also

Just thinking what should be the common pillars of strong relationship which are applicable for all ..

1. Give and Take : Every strong relationship is based on give and take . This gave and take can be money / emotions / time / hope / security / pleasures etc .. Whenever , there is some imbalance of give and take whole boat of relationship starts shaking ... So keep convection current of give and take ON for safe sailing :-)

2. Common Goal : Strong relationship go for a common goal . For couple , this common goal could be making a flat or working for child's future .. so for love birds common goal could be settle down .. This goals could vary people to people but there should be a BIG goal common for all parties involved in relationship . It is worth effort to search for common big goal if it is not there. Big common goal acts as cement to fight against any earth quakes .

3. Commitment : Commitment is key for strong relationship . Commitment should not be dropped off just by mood swings :-) ... What if some family's bread earner says he would not go for work as no mood ... Make out the commitment and stick to it.

4. Space : Give some space to all parties . Your happiness and sorrowness should not be directly related to other people and don't EXPECT vice versa also . Be less possessive....Show respect to person and it views ..

There could be many more ... But I could only find these at this time :)

So whenever , any one of the pillar start shaking then it either action time or run time ... But don't waste time just sitting , doing nothing and assuming things will be fine :-) Time never comes back.. :-)